Jacob

Five years ago, Jacob Vacher was a passenger in a single vehicle accident that left him with a traumatic brain injury (TBI). Jacob, A NIISQ lifetime participant, shares with us his story of perseverance and redefining purpose after serious injury.

Recovery and redefining ‘normal’

Reflecting on his journey since the accident, Jacob speaks with pride and gratitude. “I’m most proud of the fact that I’m still able to function as a normal person,” he says. He credits the support he received for helping him move forward.

“It’s incredible what a group like NIISQ can do to help someone who has been through something like I have get back on their feet again.”

He adds that perseverance can change perspectives. “If you put in the work, it will most definitely pay off. There were many times I thought I wasn’t normal, but I used that as something to prove wrong, and in the end after all my breaking down and negative thinking I proved (those) emotions wrong.”

Returning to work and looking ahead

After completing his major recovery, Jacob decided to return to work in a role shaped by his own lived experience. “I decided to apply as a Patient Support Officer because I thought it was only right after what I’ve been through,” he explains. He says the role has given him a strong sense of purpose.

“This job means a lot to me as it gives me massive purpose in life. There is no better feeling than being a helping hand to someone in need.”

Looking ahead, Jacob is focused on building a secure future. “My number one goal I am working towards at the moment is saving up as much money I can for a house deposit,” he explains. Having a strong support network has made a big difference. “My partner and family are really helping me stick with a positive attitude.”

Finding joy with loved ones

Jacob says spending time with family and friends brings him the most joy. “Socialising with family and friends is always great,” he says. “I love getting out on the weekend and going four‑wheel driving and camping.” He said that these simple moments help him enjoy and appreciate life outside of work.

“It is such an honour to be able to walk, talk and laugh with my loved ones.”

Reflecting on his recovery, he adds, “It was hard seeing the light at the end of the tunnel whilst deep in recovery, but it is all worth it at the end.”

Jacob’s advice for others

Jacob hopes his story can offer encouragement to others going through similar challenges. “No matter how hard it gets or may seem, keep pushing forward and being strong,” he says.

“There are going to be MANY times where you think that it’s all for nothing and that it’s too hard, but it is not worth giving up on as there is still so much joy to be had.”

Jacob also says he wouldn’t be where he is today without the people around him. “I am very thankful to my loved ones and to NIISQ for making the unthinkable happen,” he says. “I definitely couldn’t have achieved so many goals without them.”

Thank you, Jacob, for sharing your incredible journey with us.